5 Years From Now, You’ll Look Back on Today and See How Wonderful You Are.

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Always Rise Above Your Circumstances and See the Forest with Its Trees.

It’s important that you know where you are in life for if you become lost, you may not be able to see the reality of how things are. Keep a life compass in your hands and identify who and where you are at all times; only then will you know where you are going. Remember to breathe along the way.

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What is the Secret to a Good Life on Earth?

Recently a friend of mine showed me pictures from his past — there were too many to count.  He’d met his wife at a young age (very early 20s), they married, had children, purchased homes, vacationed, lived life, made mistakes and then divorced.  He was pretty devastated by the divorce, but had recovered well over the last few years.  I cried.  I cried for him, I cried for them, I cried for their mistakes and I cried for my own failures…but I gained knowledge from my experience with him.

We Can’t Dwell on Loss or on the Past.

One of the things my friend did was to mourn deeply for what he and his family lost as a result of the divorce.  Then he moved on… Continue reading What is the Secret to a Good Life on Earth?

Happy Valentine’s Day 2020

The year has started with a bang!

 

Some of you are still awaiting that special someone who knows, loves, understands and wants you.  They’re coming soon, but focus on yourself for now!  Know who you are, what you want, what you’d like to improve and where you are headed.  Find awesome role models and prepare for the rising!

 

Need to know if the person you are with is the real deal?  Make an appointment with me and hear what the oracles have to say by CLICKING HERE!

 

Enjoy your day!

 

R

 

How to Live Life to the Fullest on Planet Earth

It would be great if each individual was born with a manual attached to them, that outlined where they should go, what they should do, who they should love, how it will come about and when.  Unfortunately this is not exactly the case, so here are tidbits of Diamonds and Pearls I have gleaned to help you along your journey.

Generally Speaking, All Of Your Problems Will Be Given to You by Other Humans.

Whether it be via environmental influences, genetics, birth trauma, lack of prenatal care, relationships, etc., generally every last one of your problems will be given to you by another human being. Continue reading How to Live Life to the Fullest on Planet Earth

Speak Peacefully in #Love!

Mars has Entered Leo with the Asteroid Ceres, and the Sun is Fast Approaching

We all know that Leo the Lion is a fire sign that has no qualms about letting us know how (s)he feels when it comes to love and relationships. As Mars, the God of War enters into the energy of the sign with the amplifier Ceres and the Sun fast approaching, there is a tendency for us to say words that we could not take back even if we wanted to!

Think Before You Speak!

Through the first week of September 2017 it’s going to feel like if we don’t say what is on our minds we may explode, but I promise…..we won’t. Please practice the following for the next few days:

1. Breathe and clear your head when faced with challenging circumstances.

2. Wait a couple of days before you respond to that insane text message that someone had the nerve to send you. Perhaps they are taking something out on you, or are confused themselves. Give them a chance to explain and a couple of days to gather their own thoughts.

3. Let your yays be yay and your nays be nay, meaning you don’t have to add a bunch of profanity to the mix. Show them you mean what you say with your actions, and remember, you always retain the choice of saying nothing at all.  Silence is golden.

4. Save your energy for yourself.  Arguments usually cause us to project our own energies onto the subject of our grief leaving them feeling energized and us depleted.

5. Don’t believe everything you see on social media! We can hire actors to pose in pictures with us, and quite honestly, some people post pics just to give people the impression that they own things that are really only borrowed….lol.

Hopefully these tips will help us to survive the Leo transits that are occurring as I type!

RT

What Jay Z and 4:44 Can Do for the #Love of an American Male

When Beyonce came out with Lemonade, the visual album, I had to get a copy and must say it is a work of art, enjoyable no matter how many times I view it.  As many of you are aware, I dealt with infidelity also and Beyonce captured the suffocating intoxication of what cheating does to a woman, and what the cheatee requires from the cheater to continue on in the relationship.

The emergency manual for the broken heart.

Enter Jay Z and his new album 4:44, which features a remake of the tune Four Women by Nina Simone.  Perhaps Jay Z, in addition to stating no matter the color of your  skin, you are still who you are, also had an underlying meaning with regard to four women instead of just one (food for thought).  Additionally, he provided more than the 411 about what was going on in his male head when Queen Bey demanded absolute honesty and loyalty.  He admitted this was nothing he had ever been required to do before, and how different it was for him once he actually put himself in her shoes.

Here is where I feel Jay Z, in his confessions and sensitivities, contributes to Love American Style.  Many men will live his experience, emotions and words through this very popular album….imagine the consciousness that this will raise in the urban community.

How many other men will wake from their lusty slumber as they relive Jay Z’s relationship with Bey?

Is the peer pressure  to be a baller so strong amongst young men that swaggalishusness precludes them from being faithful?

Of course there will be many men who will immediately jump on the T.H.O.T train and claim the women have it coming to them, and don’t want to be saved, but……

…….I’m not talking about those women.  I’m speaking of all the women who raised themselves up in order to attract and to BE a worthy partner, only to be fooled by the empty promises of monogamy in a primarily polygamous culture.

Will Jay Z continue to be faithful or will he falter?  How many other men will come clean and agree that fidelty is worth sacrificing the other woman?  Does it matter if Jay Z is faithful as long as he is truthful?

Is true love the only emotion that can evoke faithfulness in a man?

Who knew that being true to a woman makes some men feel like they are less virile?

I am absolutely NOT convinced that fidelity and faithfulness are the natural order for the majority, but I’ll give Jay Z an ‘E’ for effort and a hand clap for going platinum.

 

RT