Tag: relationships

How to Save Yourself From Gaslighters and People Who Unfairly Challenge Your Good Common Sense

Manipulative People are Very Dangerous Indeed. Let’s Deal with Narcissists First.

Do you interact with someone who is controlling, authoritative or narcissistic? They can be this way overall or in one or two general areas where you feel your common sense, sensible opinions and desires are ignored completely. You probably know what an authoritarian is, however you may not know the definition of a narcissist. According to the Mayo clinic, here are some characteristics of a narcissist:

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What is the Secret to a Good Life on Earth?

Recently a friend of mine showed me pictures from his past — there were too many to count.  He’d met his wife at a young age (very early 20s), they married, had children, purchased homes, vacationed, lived life, made mistakes and then divorced.  He was pretty devastated by the divorce, but had recovered well over the last few years.  I cried.  I cried for him, I cried for them, I cried for their mistakes and I cried for my own failures…but I gained knowledge from my experience with him.

We Can’t Dwell on Loss or on the Past.

One of the things my friend did was to mourn deeply for what he and his family lost as a result of the divorce.  Then he moved on… Continue reading What is the Secret to a Good Life on Earth?

Creative Ways to Deal with Anger

I am not a medical doctor, however these are suggestions and insights I am presenting to you.

Humanity is Only a Few Steps Away From Pure Animal.

The DNA proves it.  We hear about it all the time in the news.  People stealing kids and women like they are still back in the caveman days.  People lose their heads sometimes and go into fight or flight — someone ends up dead, however the perpetrator has no clue what really happened because they went black.  The church calls it demonic possession, but all is energy so everyone is possessed with something. Continue reading Creative Ways to Deal with Anger

Strength

Definition according to Renee Tarot:

Strength

– a state of being whereby one overcomes all situations in life, whether good or bad, with a state of conscious, and intrinsically ethical, neutrality.

When I was a little girl my mother was quite nurturing toward me and my siblings, but my father struggled to connect with his own heart, how he felt about himself and how to nurture children (namely a child like me).  He, and his father before him, had been beaten down by American society and its consequences on lower class families and the uneducated men that head them.

As a result, I felt he did NOT want me…..it was as simple as that.  Consequently, I did NOT like him and the dislike morphed into a few different feelings over my lifetime:

  1.  longing (ages 0-7)
  2. avoidance (ages 8-12)
  3. hatred (ages 13-21)
  4. pity (ages 21-32)
  5. forgiveness (ages 33-45)
  6. neutrality/duty (ages 46- present)

The final feeling is what I experience to this day and duty is based on the minimum of what I would want my children (or any other caretaker) to express toward me.  I thank Spirit for the life lesson, which made me strong and provided clarity.

Nature teaches us despite the depths and joys attainable in any relationship, all eventually end in the 3rd dimension. This leads one to think we should operate with a sense that all we can hold on to is what we are, and any more that we need is given on a ‘need to have’ basis from the Universal Life Force. Each person receives an abundance of ‘something’, but no one can enjoy their ‘something’ without a paradigm shift with regard to what they lack.

If one is unable to see clearly, (s)he cannot judge.

If one is given so much that (s)he can attain nothing for him or herself, (s)he lives in a state of mental weakness.  What one feels mentally eventually becomes physical.

If one is so hurt, (s)he cannot get past self pity, (s)he is unable to help others, thereby leading to selfishness.

I would venture to say ‘strength’ in 2019 is a rare commodity.  If you don’t have it, find a way to get it.

RT

 

P.S. Both my older and younger sisters had a completely different experience with my father, one that was more positive.  People deal with us based on how we react to them (even parents), therefore ‘strength’ requires that we see things from others’ perspectives and avoid tunnel-visioned mentality in our own matrices, hence the desperate need for neutrality.

Soul Listening

We Have to Get Past the Sounds Coming from Our Physical Mouths. Nobody’s Listening Anyway!

So you’ve been yelling at that special someone and asking them to pay attention to you or to do something else for that matter. As a result of the bickering and animosity, this special someone spends even less time with you and you go off to lick your wounds wondering why you are not being heard.

Human beings have a tendency to tune out abrasive sounds, and most of us get riled up as a result of overly loud banter. The best way to be heard is through Soul Talk.

What is Soul Talk?

We all have a little known body that exists inside and outside of our physical bodies. This body is powered, at least in part, by electronic wheels along the spine: we call these wheels chakras. By using meditations and exercises to power up our own chakras, while at the same time intentionally focusing on our righteous desires, we improve ourselves and get in tune with what it is we really want. The quiet and focus allows for us to think through the possibilities and discover what may be frightening us to push those we really love away.

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Once this happens, we are able to elevate ourselves and change vibrations to magnetically attract what it is that we want. Now of course there are other things that go into this such as knowing what we REALLY want, consistency and focus. We also have to understand a bit about human nature and what draws and drives people, however this explanation gives the main gist of how it works, and the revelatory powers of meditation will usually handle the rest.

The vibration on which this true desire occurs sends strong signals to our subconscious and to the subconscious of those around us and acts as a tuning fork to get them to tune in on the same frequency, hence causing them to have mental images that are in line with what we want. This can be for good or for bad so before moving on to the next lover after finding that the three previous ones were one in the same, perhaps it is time for us to align our own energy fields to draw to us someone that is a bit grander! We attract who we are at the core, whether or not we want to accept this. I know it is really difficult, but if we think deeply, we can see how others mirror our own actions and beliefs.

Call or chat with me today to discuss the possibilities that life and love have to bring to you!

Love, light and many blessings!

Ms. Renee Advisor

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Making the Right Choices

We Ask for Many Things in Life, But What Do We Really Want?

We are going about our daily lives and so many things are available to us. We can easily peer into each other’s lives via social media, reality TV, global travel options, etc., and with so much to see, sometimes we think we want what others have, when perhaps we really don’t.

I have to admit that most times I have ever asked for something that I thought I wanted, when I received it, I wished I had never gotten it in the first place. Some ways to know what you really want is to go inside yourself for a week or two with as little external stimulation as possible. During this time, what appealed to you and what did you miss most?

Ask for only one thing at a time so you can focus your energy on one thing, but before asking for it, give it some thought to include how it will affect you, those in your inner circle, and your future self. Will it still be beneficial for you in 5 years, 10 years, etc.? Read up about it and check out what other people have to say who have it. Do you have the help around you to manage this thing? How will it affect your freedom and disposable income?

You can have what you want, but it is important for you to focus on one thing at a time to give it the energy it deserves, and to make sure it is truly a part of what YOU really want, despite what others have.

Love, light and many blessings to you!

RT