Can I Learn to Re-develop Strong Emotional Ties With My Partner?

Building Emotional Connections Requires Purposeful Actions.

You may have entered a relationship fully expecting that your partner knows how to interact with you in a healthy way. When it becomes apparent that this person is not relationship savvy, you wonder what to do because you do see their potential and want to be successful with them. You want your partner to know how to love you and vice versa.

Human Beings Must be Taught How to Love. This Means They Need Examples.

There is no reason in the world to beat yourself up because you’ve had a failed relationship or two. Even the most evolved relationships have suffered numerous failures and many of them stay together due to strong Cancerian and Capricornian natal influences, but without happiness. You can LEARN how to improve your relationships one step at a time.

We have an article for you that is a great first step in understanding what whole relationships are, and you can begin learning to re-build them in your life. Click on the link below to enjoy this #free article:

How YOU CAN Redevelop Strong, Healthy EMOTIONAL Connections After Heartbreak. Enter the Happy Zone!

Happy Valentine’s Day 2020

The year has started with a bang!

 

Some of you are still awaiting that special someone who knows, loves, understands and wants you.  They’re coming soon, but focus on yourself for now!  Know who you are, what you want, what you’d like to improve and where you are headed.  Find awesome role models and prepare for the rising!

 

Need to know if the person you are with is the real deal?  Make an appointment with me and hear what the oracles have to say by CLICKING HERE!

 

Enjoy your day!

 

R

 

Strength

Definition according to Renee Tarot:

Strength

– a state of being whereby one overcomes all situations in life, whether good or bad, with a state of conscious, and intrinsically ethical, neutrality.

When I was a little girl my mother was quite nurturing toward me and my siblings, but my father struggled to connect with his own heart, how he felt about himself and how to nurture children (namely a child like me).  He, and his father before him, had been beaten down by American society and its consequences on lower class families and the uneducated men that head them.

As a result, I felt he did NOT want me…..it was as simple as that.  Consequently, I did NOT like him and the dislike morphed into a few different feelings over my lifetime:

  1.  longing (ages 0-7)
  2. avoidance (ages 8-12)
  3. hatred (ages 13-21)
  4. pity (ages 21-32)
  5. forgiveness (ages 33-45)
  6. neutrality/duty (ages 46- present)

The final feeling is what I experience to this day and duty is based on the minimum of what I would want my children (or any other caretaker) to express toward me.  I thank Spirit for the life lesson, which made me strong and provided clarity.

Nature teaches us despite the depths and joys attainable in any relationship, all eventually end in the 3rd dimension. This leads one to think we should operate with a sense that all we can hold on to is what we are, and any more that we need is given on a ‘need to have’ basis from the Universal Life Force. Each person receives an abundance of ‘something’, but no one can enjoy their ‘something’ without a paradigm shift with regard to what they lack.

If one is unable to see clearly, (s)he cannot judge.

If one is given so much that (s)he can attain nothing for him or herself, (s)he lives in a state of mental weakness.  What one feels mentally eventually becomes physical.

If one is so hurt, (s)he cannot get past self pity, (s)he is unable to help others, thereby leading to selfishness.

I would venture to say ‘strength’ in 2019 is a rare commodity.  If you don’t have it, find a way to get it.

RT

 

P.S. Both my older and younger sisters had a completely different experience with my father, one that was more positive.  People deal with us based on how we react to them (even parents), therefore ‘strength’ requires that we see things from others’ perspectives and avoid tunnel-visioned mentality in our own matrices, hence the desperate need for neutrality.

Poetry: Realizations

I am able to recall each word you said, I remember them all.

There was a time I loved you so, 100 times I’d call.

 

But then I hated everything you were and all you showed,

the way you turned your back on me was cruel…you were so cold.

Continue reading Poetry: Realizations

How to Become a Hermit in 2017

Jennifer graduated from university in 2004 and quickly discovered how hard it is to find new and close friends.  In past days she sometimes connected with colleagues Michelle and David after work, but most of her former classmates live out of state or country so she depends on Facetime and Skype to stay in touch with them. 

Not long after her 10-year marriage to prescription addict Christopher , Jennifer decided to move away from familiar settings and settle down in a major urban area in an effort to change her environment and expand her group of friends.  Despite the Meet Up groups and Eventbrite happenings, she never seemed to connect with anyone so she turned back to her former crew via her newest #iphone.  

Jennifer did luck up and find the digital marketing job of her dreams, and she was given the opportunity to telecommute, attending meetings and training using conferencing apps like Zoom.  Jennifer felt this job came at the perfect time seeing that she did not feel like applying a full face of makeup most days, especially after her recent divorce. 

After hearing about a growing number of school and church shootings, Jennifer was happy to do online worship, as well as psychology classes on the web and found she could easily send monetary gifts and payments via PayPal.

She lived alone with her cat Sally, so she’d order their food, her jammies and toiletries through online stores, but after the vet stopped by for a house call one day, and mentioned that a new super store was being raised a couple of miles away, Jennifer realized she hadn’t left her house in two months…

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The New Age has Arrived and Brings a Bit More than We Imagined.

We expected to shift into the Age of Aquarius in a collective energy of community, cooperation and togetherness, but with the onslaught of mindless killings and meaningless physical relationships, many have taken advantage of cost and fuel-saving work-from-home options, and their feet haven’t seen real shoes for months.  The only thing unbound in their lives right now are their toes.

Modern inventions, to include the internet, podcasting, social media, online stores, web church, etc., are absolutely awesome, but then we put it all together and found out it equals a big fat ‘never leave home’.

There’s Nothing Wrong with the New Age of Hermits, But What Do You Do If You Miss the Personal Touch?

Everyone knows that online dating is not all it’s cracked up to be, but gone are the days, pretty much, where one runs into the random stranger and proceeds to a local bar….the guy or girl could drop something in your drink, leaving you to wake up naked in an alley for God’s sake!

There’s still safety in numbers, and actual classrooms vs cloud learning continue to be an option, along with cultural groups and other unions that require background checks that bring together like-minded individuals who are interested in similar past-times.  Some people will even bite the bullet and use a more selective and expensive human-managed hook up service which requires safety checks and balances, and it may be worth the money expended on such a venture.

There are quite a few of you who have found yourselves in the same predicament as Jennifer as you trudge through this fast-becoming, nontraditional journey called life.  Things have changed,yet no two journeys are alike.

Creatives have collectively been extremely ingenious about developing innovative conveniences that so many enjoy.  Perhaps it is time to be just as creative about delivering ourselves out of this mistakenly, self-imposed, and growing hermit society.

We need to ask ourselves some questions:

  1.  Would internet censorship prevent mentally unstable individuals from getting ideas about harming others?
  2. Is it necessary for American to know everything that is happening in each city and nation or is it too much?  Do we trust censorship?
  3. What in the hell is happening with supposed gun control laws that are already in existence?
  4. Is online shopping contributing to an antisocial society, and should the online giants invest money in purposeful, locally run, fresh food markets that neighbors can walk to, and that have areas for socializing? (Caviat:  I love online stores, but I need to ask the questions.)

Just some things to think about.

RT

 

I Rebelled Against Patriarchy and It Showed Up On My Face – A Love Letter

Dear Patriarchy,

It wasn’t that I didn’t like you, I was just done with the bull.  I mean, I know that my great grandmother was down for you, but my paternal grandma wasn’t having it, and I hung around her a lot…..so what did you expect…..grandpa wasn’t there to defend you because grandma divorced him.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve got body-hairless cousins that cheer for you, but I can’t pretend to agree with you when I know you’re wrong.  Also, (clears throat)…..da da da dum…..I have a brain.

I know you think it doesn’t work, and that I’m flaky and emotional, but it just means I care, I don’t want to fight and I like the thought of living longer…., which by the way, you can do if you get with my program.

I have something I have to tell you and I’ve been wanting to tell you this for a long time.  You’re not as smart as me.  Nope, and under your leadership, little girls and boys have been raped and mutilated, and the world is going to hell in a hand basket.

Speak to someone who cares — get advice about love and finances.

Oh, you didn’t know?

But, I’m not going to make this long, I just wanted to ask if we could find a way to get along.  I still want your virility in my life, but when you see me….you see someone else.  It kinda showed up on my face and now you think I’m a smartass or a know-it-all.

Nooooo!  It’s not that lol, it’s just that I like not having bruises on my arm from you pulling me where I don’t want to go.  And, sometimes I just want to curl up with my English tea, my cat and my kindle.  And just because I don’t want to have sex when I want my kindle, doesn’t mean I don’t ever want it because when I want it, I WANT IT!  I no longer want to be a slave to the drug testosterone or to the tiny bacteria that lie at the root of your male member, which YOU refuse to treat because…

“That doctor’s equipment hurts me!” You say in your whiny voice.

So you’d rather I be hurt by you.

Oh well, don’t hate me because I have my own mind.  I still need you.  Let’s figure out how we can make this work because you have to admit, we need each other.

Love,

Matriarchy