Recently a friend of mine showed me pictures from his past — there were too many to count. He’d met his wife at a young age (very early 20s), they married, had children, purchased homes, vacationed, lived life, made mistakes and then divorced. He was pretty devastated by the divorce, but had recovered well over the last few years. I cried. I cried for him, I cried for them, I cried for their mistakes and I cried for my own failures…but I gained knowledge from my experience with him.
We Can’t Dwell on Loss or on the Past.
One of the things my friend did was to mourn deeply for what he and his family lost as a result of the divorce. Then he moved on… Continue reading
We Ask for Many Things in Life, But What Do We Really Want?
We are going about our daily lives and so many things are available to us. We can easily peer into each other’s lives via social media, reality TV, global travel options, etc., and with so much to see, sometimes we think we want what others have, when perhaps we really don’t.
I have to admit that most times I have ever asked for something that I thought I wanted, when I received it, I wished I had never gotten it in the first place. Some ways to know what you really want is to go inside yourself for a week or two with as little external stimulation as possible. During this time, what appealed to you and what did you miss most?
Ask for only one thing at a time so you can focus your energy on one thing, but before asking for it, give it some thought to include how it will affect you, those in your inner circle, and your future self. Will it still be beneficial for you in 5 years, 10 years, etc.? Read up about it and check out what other people have to say who have it. Do you have the help around you to manage this thing? How will it affect your freedom and disposable income?
You can have what you want, but it is important for you to focus on one thing at a time to give it the energy it deserves, and to make sure it is truly a part of what YOU really want, despite what others have.
Love, light and many blessings to you!
Deep Down Inside, Every Human Knows Earth Is Meant to be a Playground
I’m guilty as charged!
Mr. Wrong or should I say Mr. Wrongs are a few of the reasons why I have so much insight into other people’s issues….lol. Mr./Ms. Right, quite honestly, can be a bit boring, however Mr./Ms. Wrong gives us that elusive challenge for love that keeps our hearts pumping, our loins active and our minds completely engaged.
In many cases they are the masters of illusion and know how to pull the strings of our hearts — they learned how to do that during their childhoods when they discovered how to get away with doing more than a few incorrect things. But in any case, we love to love them because it hurts so good!
How to Stop Wanting What is Not Right for You
But, now you’re tired, and your heart has been pulverized one time too many! It’s become exhausting and you are finally ready for a love that invests into your soul, and does not just take away from it.
Just think about it for a second.
You love yourself…….now. No, I mean you really put yourself on a pedestal to the point where your subconscious is so connected to what is right for you, that you have developed an intuition for all that does NOT serve. You are strong and realize that you must keep foolery from your heart, and you KNOW only time can identify true frauds. Now with self-love like this, and a keen eye for details, how could you want, attract or settle for what’s wrong for you? Correct, you can’t!