I have so much to write about and so many thoughts that I have to separate the topics because each reader follows for specific reasons and guidance. No one has time to weed through posts that are not relevant to their interests, however there are times when one of my other blogs is relevant to this one, which is mainly about spiritual energy / ascension and soul advancement.
Unfortunately, I must admit this book, and especially this chapter, are written as a result of my personal experience with certain negative situations and behaviors, namely infidelity, which surprisingly left my #mind in #one #piece. I have chosen to take a bit of a different approach on the topic of cheaters in this divorce/break up blog. You can easily go to the internet, library or bookstore and find loads of articles and periodicals about characteristics of people who cheat, specifically men, which I will focus on since I am a heterosexual woman and that is where my firsthand experience lies. I actually have decided to deal with what I think I needed to learn from the situation, hoping that someone will benefit from this.
Some of what I discovered came from conversations with the “other woman” who indulged me by telling me what my husband had said about his ‘love’ for her and what he’d told her about me (believe it or not, this person was very similar to me, except not as faithful :). I have also talked to male relatives who cheated to get their perspective from a man’s point of view. With regard to speaking to the other woman, it was more of a relief than anything to have firm proof that my suspicions were not unfounded and that I was in my right mind.